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Dianne Harper's avatar

A friend and I (mid 60s and early 70s) were talking the other day about how weird/hard/surprising it is to be "old" and invisible and to be those people who we used to believe were so out of touch with the world. All the weirdness of it. We decided we needed t-shirts that said: weirdly old. I fluctuate between your hippo photo and twirling around in all my "I don't give a damn" weirdness...al.ost daily.

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Patricia Jaeger's avatar

I'm a woman who is 71 years old and was never considered "pretty" at any age (although my daughter was looking through my high school yearbook a few years back and, spontaneously, told me I was pretty but probably not appreciated at the time). Luckily I'm on the autism spectrum and have never cared what anyone thought about my looks or my intelligence or my other talents. I would never purchase a cookbook because the author was young and pretty. "Young" tells me they lack real world experience and "pretty" is irrelevant. I'm not surprised that a man said this as they do tend to place way too much emphasis on both, but only when it comes to women, and they either enjoy the "teasing" insults or are oblivious with no filter. I have nothing against this unknown woman and wish her well, but I know that you're very experienced in the kitchen and very truthful about the cooking experience. I love the tips (rubbing the zest into the sugar - who knew) and the ingredient options. I'm also Irish through and through so no ricotta and olive oil cakes growing up but I will be adding this to my "to do" list because I trust you when you say it'll taste good.

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